When I first started my blog I felt like I needed to only write posts about certain things in order to be successful. I felt like if I posted too much variety that I’d be too all over the place and no one would want to read my blog.
The past few months I stopped trying to fit my blog in a box. I stopped waiting days (sometimes months) to publish a post because I was too scared it would be out of my league/category. I also stopped worrying if I lost some readers.
Please let me clarify, I love and appreciate each and every one of you who takes the time to read my posts. But, I want you guys to read my blog because you like me and the content I create and post. Not because I’m writing what I feel like I have to in order to stay relevant.
I hope that makes sense?
I’ve been asked before, “What is your blog about?” and I answer back with, “A lifestyle blog.” Because this is a blog where I share a little bit of everything life can consist of. I share recipes, favorites, reviews, giveaways, posts about my faith, being home-schooled and much more. My blog is diverse; it’s whatever is on my heart at the time.
I want my blog to be as authentic as it can be and I feel like I can do that to the best of my ability by not putting myself in a niche. Not to sound cheesy, but society forces the idea of fitting a mold into our heads at such a young age. So when we don’t conform to a mold, we feel like we’re rebelling; when really we’re not! We are simply being ourselves.
We are all individuals and we’re allowed to grow, change, and find new ways to be the best us. As bloggers, our blogs are a representation of who we are. I’m not the same person I was 5 years ago and that’s okay. My blog, just like me, will change and grow.
So, if you’re reading this right now, thank you. Thank you for hanging in there with ❤
To wrap up, If you’re starting a blog and want your first post to be a recipe and the next to be about your dog, go for it! I’m surely not going to judge you! We’re all free to be 😉
Question time:
If you run a blog, have you ever worried about fitting in?
Do you like variety or the same old same old?
Yes! I actually prefer blogs with variety because I get tired of all food posts, all personal posts, etc. I think a good variety is a way to keep readers of all varieties coming back and interested!
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I love variety in my blog posts too! I try and break up the monotony with every post 🙂
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Quite honestly Edye, I thoroughly look forward to your blog. To me, your posts are like a breath of fresh air to me, always covering something of interest. Keep doing what you do, it is perfect.
As for your first question, no, I haven’t ever worried about fitting in. I do my blog because I enjoy it. I am not there to impress anyone, but share my recipes and have fun doing it 🙂
Have a beautiful day. x
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You are such a sweetheart, Lynne! Thank you so much for your kind comment! I admire how you blog for your own enjoyment and passion for sharing recipes with others. Wishing you a marvelous weekend ❤
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I have never worried about fitting in. I like my blog to be diverse and it always will be.
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Such a great outlook, Danielle! Thanks for stopping by.
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I enjoy all the different topics you cover. I think it’s great to not limit yourself!
http://www.kathrineeldridge.com
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Thanks so much, Kathrine! I’m so glad you enjoy the variety. Happy weekend ❤
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This totally makes sense and you should write about whatever you want! I do the same and I agree that I’d rather have people read my blog because they like what I write rather than me writing to fit in!
Amy xx
http://www.callmeamy.co.uk
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Absolutely, Amy! It’s nice to know others can relate to how I feel. After all is said and done, we just need to be ourselves xx
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I think you should do what you love and what feels right for you! You absolutely do not need to have a niche. I have worried about fitting because I feel like my style is so different than the majority of bloggers, but at the end of the day it’s who I am and what makes my blog unique 🙂
Liz
http://Www.lizzieinlace.com
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Your style is amazing, Liz! So classy and current! So glad you stopped by ❤
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I’m doing the same with my blog 🙂
Thank you for following! I followed you back on bloglovin 🙂
xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena
http://www.dressedwithsoul.com
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Thanks so much, Rena! Best of luck with your blog xx
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Aww! So true! Just stay WHO YOU ARE and write from the heart! I love your blog, and I think you are the cutest! Keep up the good work!
Have a wonderful weekend, love!
xoxo, Vanessa
http://www.WhatWouldVWear.com
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Thank you so much, Vanessa! You’re such a sweetheart! Wishing you a fabulous weekend ❤
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I love variety!!! And I don’t want to be pushed in a niche because I don’t fit in! I’m total with you!
I wish you a wonderful weekend!!
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Yes! So nice to know you feel the same way, Emmi! Wishing you a wonderful weekend as well 🙂
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hmm hard one. I love variety but I love personal touches. I mean I visit certain blogs because: 1 is great at funny writing. or taking amazing pictures or funny captions you know!
Dora xx
http://www.BangsBang.com
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There lots of different things that keep me coming back to blogs as well, Dora! Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts.
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Beautifully written.
Totally agree on everything. I think if we try the fit in we are losing ourselves.
xx
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_zn7IqrAY1I44bRuN6dH-Q
https://theonethattravels.wordpress.com/
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Thank you so much! I’m so glad you enjoyed the post xx
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I have a “mostly random” blog. The only consistent thing I do is review picture books. I post a picture book review every Thursday. Other than that, it’s kind of all over the place. I post stories about saints. And I post recipes. And I post whatever else I feel like posting.
So thanks for the encouragement. I’m glad I’m not the the only one whose blog doesn’t fit in a box!
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So glad you could relate to this post, Charlotte! I love reading diverse blogs; they always keep me coming back. Have a wonderful weekend ❤
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Love that you’re just posting about whatever interests you!
Caitlin, Beauty & Colour
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Thank you, Caitlin! Have a great Saturday!
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My blog has morphed and evolved since I began it as a travel diary back in 2013. I was so nervous to post anything fashion related, but I just went for it. Like you mentioned, blogs kind of evolve with us as we evolve, and that’s what’ so great about them!
Annessa
http://www.seekingsunshine.com
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Yes, it is! Evolution as people is a part of life and our blogs can be a great representation of that.
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I’m definitely with ya! I have way too many interests/hobbies to be forced to box myself into just one subject! 😛 I think if I had to be shoved into one, the most accurate would likely be “healthy living lifestyle blog,” haha. I do enjoy having a routine/schedule, but I like a lot of different things. :]!
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So nice to have someone in the same boat as me! If I had to shove my blog into a category it would be “lifestyle, faith, review, giveaway, blog.” See why I don’t have a niche? LOL 😛
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This is a great post!
It is amazing to do something that you truly believe in and enjoy! I’m glad you are following the path where you are writing and creating posts about things you like and are passionate about!
I write Mademoiselle Meets Maquillage and Macaroons and I would love for you to give it a read, maybe we can follow each other’s blogs and social media?
http://www.mademoisellemeetsmaquillageandmacaroons.com
Deepti xx
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Thanks so much, Deepti! I’m so glad you stopped by! I cannot gurentee a follow, but I’ll totally check out your blog ❤
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I love your blog because of all the variety and different things you post!!
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Aw! Thank you so much, Lyss! Have a great Sunday ❤
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Thanks for sharing. I used to blog about crafts then realized I didn’t like making stuff all of the time. Sometimes it’s better to buy it vs. DIY! I just started a new blog and I feel the same way about it being a lifestyle blog. I want to talk about all sorts of ideas and share as I have them, not be tied down to just one topic. I think people appreciate authentic posts vs. phony filler posts. Just found you and will be following!
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Thank you so much for your sweet comment! I’m so happy you enjoyed the post and to have you on board as a reader. I prefer authentic, variety filled blogs too. I like reading about different topics; it keeps things interesting! 🙂
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I like all sorts of blogs. Though mine, Delightful Repast, is a food blog, my weekly posts (for 7 years now) sometimes stray a bit from food – tea, afternoon tea, wine, travel (these are all food-“related”). I think bloggers should definitely write about what they want to write about, not just follow rules for success. I throw in the occasional review and giveaway, food- or tea-related, always something I use and enjoy myself. Sounds like lots of people enjoy your mix of topics, so you must be on the right track for you!
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Hi, Jean! Thanks so much for stopping by and commenting! Your blog sounds lovely and very diverse. Have a wonderful weekend.
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I have been blogging since 2006. I had a similar feeling about keeping my topic “pure.” I went so far as starting a second blog for the extras. It’s hard enough to write enough for one, two makes it even harder. My following is small and my niche pretty tiny, off the grid living. I write to share my experiences and things that I have learned along the way. You’ve made me feel better about being more eclectic. – Margy
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Hi, Margy! I’m so glad you stopped by and enjoyed the post. I couldn’t imagine having two blogs; one can be so much work! I wish you all the best with your blogging endeavors ❤
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