When I first started blogging I was curious if I’d be able to make any friends. I love people, but worried if my personality really comes across on the internet and if anyone would want to befriend me. I was a little “internet shy” at first; then slowly but surely as I continue to grow my blog I’m making more and more friends – and I love it! I’ve met so many awesome people and hope this post will be helpful to someone out there who wants to do the same. If you’re new to blogging and wanna make a friend, feel free to say hi 😉
1). Be Genuine – This is my number one rule when it comes to making friends in general; whether it be online or offline. As humans we’re very intuitive and can sense when someone is being disingenuous. So whether you’re commenting on someone’s blog post or wishing them a happy birthday on Twitter, be sincere. After you’ve known the person for a while they’ll pick up on how down to earth and real you are. It’s so easy to hide behind a computer and put on a facade, but eventually people will discover your true character.
2). Share other peoples posts – This is something I love doing! As a blogger I know how difficult it can be to get ahead. So I love helping out my fellow bloggers whenever I can. It can be as simple as sharing someones post on Pinterest or Google+. Even if your share drew just one person to their blog, think about it, you helped grow their audience! That’s awesome! Whenever someone shares one of my posts I’m stoked. So whenever I see a post I really like or think my followers will like, I share it. Sharing is caring.
3). Follow people on social media – Just like you my IG feed is full of celebrities and the occasional cute puppy. But, once I started blogging I wanted to see what my friends were up to, too! If you have that one blog that you really enjoy reading follow them on their social media. Odds are you’ll get to see a different side of them and learn more about them.
— Please don’t follow someone just so they may follow you back. Only follow someone if you’re actually into their blog, website, brand, etc. —
4). Leave sincere comments – This kind of goes hand in hand with tip #1. Bloggers appreciate any kind of comment from a reader. But if you’re looking to build a friendship and get to know the blogger more, you need to leave a more deep comment than “Nice post.” Lots of bloggers ask their readers questions at the end of their blog posts. So, if you don’t know what to comment, try answering the question(s) they asked you.
5). Don’t put yourself in a box – By this I mean don’t feel like just because you’re a food blogger that you can’t be friends with a fashion or mommy blogger! At the end of the day we’re all people and we’re a lot more alike than we think. Even if someone’s not in your “blogging niche,” you can still read and comment on their stuff. I, personally, follow tons of different kinds of blogs and have made the sweetest friends.
6). Be yourself – I plan on writing another post about being yourself in the future. But, my feelings in a nut shell are this: don’t try to be anyone but yourself. Believe it or not, people will like you for you. You’re amazing in your own way and others will see that! Don’t feel like you have to comment what others are commenting about. Write what YOU want to say; maybe even ask the blogger a question relating to their post!
That’s all for today post! Friends are awesome and can be made at any day, place, or time. I’m sorry for not posting super often lately, but I have several posts in the works, so hang in there with me! Talk to you later, gators ❤
Question time:
Got any tips for making friends?
Do you follow blogs that aren’t in your niche?
Hi Edye, I am always so impressed with your blog posts. You always seem to have the most amazing topic’s and best of all, you are you, and it really shines through in your writing.
Tips: Honestly, as you mentioned, just be yourself !
And, yes, I follow a lot of blogs, on a lot of different topic’s. It opens my mind and makes me feel more in tune with the world 🙂
Have a beautiful day 🙂
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Thank you so much, Lynne! You’re such a sweetheart ❤ I find that following different kinds of blogs helps to open up my mind too. Also, I end up learning little things along the way 🙂 Have a wonderful day!
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I have made so many blogger friends through being nice and genuine. I don’t think by acting better than anyone gets you anywhere xx
http://blossomofhope.blogspot.com/
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I 100% agree with you, Laura! Being humble always gets you further than being prideful xx
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for me, being genuine and leaving sincere comments is so so important to me. I don’t want to come across as “fake” on my blog and I try to be as authentic as possible! 🙂
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Me too! Authenticity is an attribute I try and always maintain; and I really appreciate in others 🙂
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Great tips on connecting with other bloggers! I need to share posts more ofter from ones I love. Have an awesome day Edye!
http://www.kathrineeldridge.com
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Thank you, Kathrine! I need to work on sharing more posts I love too. Gotta spread the blogger love 😉
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I love making blogger friends although I’m sure I could make more of an effort! Sharing people’s posts is definitely something I need to do more although I always leave comments on my favourites!
Amy xx
http://www.callmeamy.co.uk
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I always try and comment too, Amy! It’s so nice to make a connection with someone and get to know more about the person behind the blog. xx
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Then can i be a blogging-friend with you? Gracefulcoffee
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Hi, Ope! Your website has some pretty helpful blogging tips 🙂 Sure, lets be blogging friends. Thanks for being a reader!
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Such a great post! I really enjoyed reading it! You are a wise girl! 🙂
Have a nice weekend!
Daria
http://www.dbkstylez.com
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Thank you so much, Daria! You’re so sweet ❤ Have a lovely weekend!
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Aw! I loved this post so much! Internet friends are the best, especially blogger internet friends! xx
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I’m so glad you did, Marti! Aren’t internet friends the best?! ❤
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Thank you for the tips, I follow so many blogs that aren’t my niche but I love seeing all the different posts 🙂
Rosy | Sparkles of Light Blog
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You’re very welcome, Rosy! I love seeing a variety of posts too 🙂
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Leaving sincere comments is so important. I once wrote a negative review on a product and some girls commented: great product, looks so nice, I bet it works great etc. They did not even read my review and the comments were ridiculous. So leaving a nice sincere comment on someone else’s blog is really nice, it means that you give value and respect the person that dedicated hours in writing the post.
Yiota
PinkDaisyLoves
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This is a spot on statement, Yiota! Bloggers work so hard on their posts; so to get sincere recognition for our work is immensely appreciated!
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I always appreciate your kind blog comments, Edye! And I’ve enjoyed connecting with other like-minded health bloggers thought my blogging journey- so cool how that can happen!
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Thank you so much, Liv! Isn’t it amazing how the internet can bring people together?! ❤
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These are absolute great points, especially the Good Comments point. I have always dislike shallow comments like: nice post, great article, etc… it does nothing for the post. I even read that it is even bad for the google ranking, and they even suggest to delete them, which I have done in some cases. Great to connect with you Edye!
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Hi Jacky! I’m so glad you stopped by and enjoyed the post.
Yes, insincere comments are somewhat common in the blogging world. So whenever I get nice, sincere comments, I’m so happy 🙂
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I like to make friends regardless of my niche and make sure to reply to all comments as a mark of appreciation ..
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Me too! Thanks for stopping by my blog :]
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Love this post! Indeed you got to make bloggers your friends.
http://sherazmataz.blogspot.co.uk/2016/10/5-problems-bloggers-face-and-how-to.html?m=1
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Thanks, Chileshe! Blogging friends are a great thing to have.
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I suck at making friends in real life let alone for blogging, but these tips sound really good, I think I’ll have to put more into practice xx
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Making friends isn’t always easy, but I feel like it’s a little easier online. Feel free to chat with me anytime 🙂 xx
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I love this! I think authenticity with blog comments is one of the most important because generally you kind of build a community around your blog and at the end of every computer is a real person so you have to develop a real relationship with them. 🙂
mia // http://www.okaaythen.com
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Thanks, Mia! Such a great point you made; everyone at the end of the computer IS a person. It’s so lovely to build friendships with them ❤
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These are great tips, ever since I joined blogging I have made so many connections and it feels so good. I think being genuine is the #1 tip!
Camila,
My Vogue Style | http://www.myvoguestyle.com
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Thanks so much, Camila! Being genuine is key to so many things, friendship included ❤
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YES to all of these! I’ve loved meeting so many people through blogging over the years!
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Isn’t it the best?! So glad you stopped by my blog today, Ashley ❤
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Great post! Being sincere is so important! I have met one of my best friends in the blogging world! It is possible! Thanks for sharing your tips!
Happy Monday, love!
xoxo, Vanessa
http://www.WhatWouldVWear.com
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Thanks, Vanessa! That’s so cool you met one of your best friends through blogging! Isn’t it amazing how the internet can bring people together?
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I love meeting new people! I love the post!
Dora http://www.BangsBang.com
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Thank you, Dora! I do too!
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This is my first visit to your blog…and thought it appropriate since you visit my blog and enter my book giveaways all the time! I’m going to add you to my RSS reader (much easier for me to keep up with various blogs in all areas!)
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Hi Leslie! I’m so glad you stopped by my blog; yours has such awesome giveaways 🙂 I’m glad to have you as a reader!
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