Being humble is one quality I deeply admire in a person. It’s a quality that not all of us have, especially once we get older. I think once we hit a certain age (the number varies from person to person) we develop a sense of knowing pretty much everything. We think that we’re at a point in our lives where we don’t need people younger that us, that have a lower job ranking that us, or we feel superior to, to teach us things. We think we know it all. Wrong. We don’t know it all and probably never will.
Being humble is to say, “Hey, I messed up and I’m sorry.”
Being humble is to say, “Could you please teach me how to do that?”
Being humble is to never be too proud to ask for help.
A good friend of mine once told me, “Life is God’s kindergarten for us, His children. He’s constantly teaching us things no matter what our age.” That may seem like a minute statement to some, but when she said that to me, it struck a cord. I came to the fast realization that I won’t know it all when I’m 30, 50, or even 70. There will always be something new to learn and there will always be times when we make mistakes; we’re human.
One five word prayer I pray all the time is “God, please humble the proud.” Please know that I include myself in this prayer too! I have moments where I’ve done the wrong thing and need to apologize, but I feel like I’m belittling myself by doing so. I couldn’t be more incorrect. When you apologize you look in the mirror and see that you’re not perfect. You see that even you make mistakes. Saying you’re sorry can make a world of difference. Not only for the person you’re apologizing to, but for yourself as well.
“ Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.”- Romans 12:16 (NIV)
After I apologize or ask for help against my not-so-better-judgement, I feel accomplished. I don’t feel low and small. I feel big and reassured that I can learn from my sense of pride and overcome it.
Looking back now on times when I asked for help or to be taught something, I realized how much I’ve learned. I learned to ride a bike, bake a cake, drive a car, crochet a scarf, and much more. I learned that in life you will need people. You are not weak or childish by asking for direction. We all need to learn how to read a map; we’re not born knowing.
So my final thoughts on this topic is never be too prideful to improve yourself, to learn something new, or to accept help from another person. Stand firm in knowing you’re worth is infinite, but not so firm that you cannot see your own shortcomings. Choosing to be humble is always the best option.
Question time:
What are your thoughts on this topic?
What does being humble mean to you?
Yes, i totally agree with you. Great post.
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Thanks, Vidya. I hope you have a great week!
Blessings,
Edye
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I do wish I was more naturally humble – I can admit when I’m wrong and say sorry, but I hate admitting it!
Amy xx
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Admitting you’re wrong is something I struggle with too, Amy. I now try and make a conscious effort to work on that aspect of myself. After all, nobody’s perfect. Hope you have a wonderful week xx
Blessings,
Edye
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What a beautiful post! You are always a nice dose of calm with such a wonderful ability to bring our focus back down to earth. Love it!
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This is one of the nicest comments I’ve ever received. Thank you so much, Jen ❤
Blessings,
Edye
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I agree with you on this Edye. I think it’s important to not be prideful and boastful. I also think its important to not carry your pride in such insignificant things like doing a longer workout or choosing to drink a smoothie over eat a cookie!
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Amen, I used to do that! I used to feel more confident if I ate a salad as opposed to a cookie. I’m totally trying to improve that character flaw and realize that those things are just what you said; insignificant. ❤
Blessings,
Edye
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It’s so important to stay humble and admit when you’re wrong!
xo
Siffat
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Absolutely! I hope you have a great week ❤
Blessings,
Edye
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That’s really interesting subject. What does it mean to you? Well, I have to say that my definition and understanding is very similar to yours. I noticed that I create the relationship with humbled people and it is a very great experience as we can share knowledge and learn new skills. Iga http://www.igaberry.com
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I’m so glad you stopped by my blog, Iga! Yes, we can learn so much from others. ❤
Blessings,
Edye
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Such a wonderful post! Staying humble is such a great quality to have! Overall Jesus stayed humble all his time on earth as well. I constantly learn more about me and my relationship with Christ which helps me to stay grounded and humble. 🙂
xoxo, Vanessa
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Thanks so much, Vanessa! My relationship with Christ keeps me humble as well. To know Jesus is God’s son, yet he was so humble and down to earth during His time on earth is a great example of humility 🙂 Hope you have a lovely week!
Blessings,
Edye
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Agreed – being humble is a great quiality to have!
Don’t forget to join the Fashion Frenzy Linkup this Wednesday!
Annessa
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Absolutely! I didn’t know if it was okay to link up non-fashion posts, but I’ll totally share this one 🙂 Thanks, girl!
Blessings,
Edye
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What a great message!
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Thanks so much, Nicole ❤
Blessings,
Edye
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This is sooo true- being humble enough to recognize when you’re wrong + say you’re sorry is really important. Great read, lady!
-Ashley
Le Stylo Rouge
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Thanks, Ashley! I hope your week is going great ❤
Blessings,
Edye
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You are so right no matter how old you are there is always so much to learn. Asking for help can be difficult, but it definitely helps you to be a better person. I definitely need to humble myself and ask for help more often when I am feeling overwhelmed.
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I agree, Sonya. Humility definitely helps better us as people and helps us to grow. I hope you have a wonderful week, my friend ❤
Blessings,
Edye
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Great post, being humble is all about being okay with not being at the top. I think its hardest to humble yourself when its something that you are already super knowledgeable about.
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Thanks, Heather! YES, I totally agree!!! Whenever you’re really good at something, it’s hard to take advice from someone who knows even more than you do.
Blessings,
Edye
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totally agree ahhhh ❤ humble all the way
Lovely post xx
sofia
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Thanks, Sofia! I hope you’ll come back by my blog again soon ❤
Blessings,
Edye
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I agree. I always feel we can never stop learning, I think it would sadden me to realise i’d stopped trying some day, I hope I never do! x #twinklytuesday
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Absolutely, Clare! We need to never stop striving to learn. Have a wonderful day xx
Blessings,
Edye
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Being humble is not being arrogant and being always kind! Having patience with other people!
Dora http://www.BangsBang.com
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I couldn’t agree more, Dora! Hope you’re doing well ❤
Blessings,
Edye
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Lovely post and message here! Being humble to me is staying grounded, believing everyone is equal and important xx
Lauren | itslaurenvictoria.blogspot.co.uk
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Yes, Lauren! Everyone is equal and important no matter what. Thanks for reading xx
Blessings,
Edye
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Love this post! You are so right, being humble is a great trait to have. This quote “Life is God’s kindergarten for us, His children. He’s constantly teaching us things no matter what our age.” is amazing. I love it!
xx, Elise
http://www.sparkleandslippers.blogspot.com
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Thank you so much, Elise! I’m so happy you enjoyed the post. Thanks for stopping by ❤
Blessings,
Edye
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Thanks so much for visiting!!
Hugs,
Debbie
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You’re very welcome, Debbie!
Blessings,
Edye
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What a good word, Edye! Keep learning new things. Keep growing! Love this!
Found your post today on 100 Days.
Blessings,
Melanie
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Thank you so much, Melanie! I’m so glad you stopped by my blog today 🙂
Blessings,
Edye
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Nice post 🙂
*XoXo
Helena Primeira
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Thank you, Helena! 🙂
Blessings,
Edye
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Great read, totally inspired and I totally agree with you. I need to accept when I go wrong, be hunble and also accept corrections. Lovely wrote up.
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Thank you so much, Tessy! I’m so glad you enjoyed the post. Happy Friday!
Blessings,
Edye
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Thanks in support of sharing such a fastidious thought,
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Thank you so much! I’m glad you enjoyed the post.
Blessings,
Edye
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I started a new job back in June. It humbled me for sure. It was a completely new environment, new co workers, new friends, and new tasks. But it was a good thing for me. It stretched me. I leaned on the Lord more than ever. Step by step sometimes. Very humbling, but good for me.
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What a lovely testimony, Debbie! Isn’t it amazing how God can put our life in a whole new direction and we end up drawing closer to Him? He is perfect in all of His ways ❤
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To me, being humble means you know you depend on the Lord. It’s always true, but too easy to forget in day to day life! It is so true that we’ll never be done learning. Thanks for the post!
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I love that answer, Marielle. You’re so right! We forget to trust in the Lord ALWAYS and lean on Him for strength.
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